When it comes to learning disabilities, look at the big picture. All children need affection, motivation, and guidance, and positive reinforcement will help children with learning disabilities develop a good sense of self-worth, trust, and the determination to persevere even when things are difficult.
When looking for ways to assist children with learning disabilities, keep in mind that you are trying to assist them in helping themselves. Your role as a parent is to provide your child with the social and emotional tools they need to overcome obstacles, not to “cure” the learning disability. Overcoming a challenge like a learning disability will help your child grow stronger and more resilient in the long run.
Always keep in mind that how you act and respond to challenges has a significant impact on your child. A positive mindset won’t fix your child’s issues with a learning disability, but it will give them hope and trust that things can get better and that they can succeed in the end.
Tips for dealing with your child’s learning disability
Keep stuff in context. A learning disorder isn’t impossible to overcome.
Remind yourself that you are not alone in your struggles. It is your responsibility as a parent to teach your child how to overcome these challenges without being frustrated or overwhelmed. Don’t let the assessments, school bureaucracy, and endless paperwork keep you from doing what’s most important: providing emotional and moral support to your child.
Be an advocate for your child.
You may need to speak up many times to get special assistance for your child. Work on your communication skills and embrace your position as a proactive parent. It can be challenging at times, but by staying calm and rational while still being strong, you can make a significant difference in your child’s life.
Remember that your influence outweighs all others.
Your child will imitate your actions. If you tackle learning difficulties with determination, hard work, and a sense of humour, your child is more likely to accept your point of view—or at the very least, to see the obstacles as speed bumps rather than roadblocks. Concentrate your efforts on figuring out what works best for your child and putting it into practice as best you can.
Focus on strengths, not just weaknesses
If you need assistance with your child’s development, reach out to Aussie Youth Care and we’ll help you.